326 | Do You Subconsciously Resist Success?

Do You Subconsciously Resist Success? Do you fear success? For most of us, it’s as common as fearing failure, but much more subtle… Have you ever felt like pure joy or happiness, and then the next moment felt a sense of anxiety? When things are going really well in life, do you start wondering…when is the ‘shoe going to …

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269 | How To Break The Self-Sabotage Spiral 

 Do you ever find yourself… Feeling like crap about yourself? Feeling rejected? Feeling not smart enough? Making poor decisions you know you shouldn’t? Responding in defensiveness or anger? Upset or hurt by your spouse or close friend and blaming them? How do we get to that place? So often we feel rejected, not good …

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How Feeling Responsible for Other’s Emotions Sabotages You and How Not To

Do you ever struggle with feeling responsible for how someone else feels about you or some situation  in their life? If you have, you know the struggle of figuring out how to help them, if you even should help, and fear of guilt or feeling selfish if you don’t help, and the weight of taking …

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208 | The Game-Changing Power of Good To Great

The Game-Changing Power of Good to Great On this episode of The Chris LoCurto Show, we’re talking to Sarah and Brent Carpenter about the game-changing experiences they both had during their Next-Level Life events. If you’ve been feeling stuck, or you want to know what true freedom is like… you’ll wanna hear this! We were …

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7 Signs You Self-Sabotage

Self-sabotage is one of the greatest limiting factors to how successful you can be in business and life! And the crazy thing is, most people have absolutely no clue that they self-sabotage.

Self-sabotage is one of the most destructive patterns I see in LifePlan no matter who the person is, where they come from, what their background is, or what their work position is.

Self Sabotage

While so many people define self-sabotage as alcohol abuse, drug abuse, and over-eating, there are a bunch of other ways we self-sabotage. Some are socially recognizable and judged according to a social scale, and others aren’t as easily understood.

Here are a few ways that we tend to hurt ourselves by self-sabotage:

10 Signs You’re Not Emotionally Strong

Today we’re diving into Part 2 of the 10 Signs You’re Not Emotionally Strong and have recapped all 10 of the signs. If you missed the last Chris LoCurto Show, listen here:

What does it mean to be emotionally strong? Other peoples actions can’t tear you down or affect you or stress you out. You don’t have problems making decisions and you’re content with life. You’re happy and everything in your world is going well. Even if there are struggles or problems, you’re able to get through decision making processes and be strong.

The Lies We Believe [Podcast]

The lies that we’re told, the lies we tell ourselves, and the lies we believe hold us back.

When you’re told specific lies from people you love, like parents or family, those words hold you back from becoming something greater or believing in yourself or becoming an entrepreneur or fill in the blank.

Why do people we love tell us lies?

4 Ways To Help You Let Go

For many people, letting go of hurt, anger, pride, and the past is more difficult than watching Gigli. While others are able to shake bad things off, or look at everything with a fantastically positive attitude, most people struggle to just let go.

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And when you see someone who seems to be mad or negative about everything, it’s usually not everything they’re mad about. It’s from something much deeper that’s been buried inside for a long time.

Over a third of the leaders and entrepreneurs that I coach, have connected some of the issues in their business with something that happened in their childhood or relationship, or lack there of, with their father.

When leading people through LifePlan, I spend time working through the big turns in someone’s life, not the big crazy experiences, to discover why they are where they are and why they make the decisions they make. Having this information is the beginning of what I use to lead them to the life they actually want.

In all situations, letting go becomes key. Now, as I say that, there are a ton of friends or spouses out there that always say, “I told you that you needed to do that”. Here is what I can promise you – it doesn’t matter how many times you tell someone what’s wrong with them, or what they need to do, if they don’t ever get to the root of the issue, they’ll never be able to “let go.”

Obviously I can’t go through two days worth of info in this post, but here are some things you can do right now to help you let go: